There is an NCO still in place, but the “victim” keeps calling me? What should I do?
Well you don’t respond, and you don’t have contact with her. The no contact order is for you and not her. But if she is attempting to contact you? You need to get with an experienced lawyer who can have that contact changed possibly to a no violent contact if she wants to speak with you. But until that time, you run the risk of violating the contact order if you do respond.